How to Talk About Urinary Incontinence: A Step-by-Step Guide
Published: Sep 02, 2023
Discussing urinary incontinence can be daunting, but it's crucial for effective management. This guide provides steps to help you initiate the conversation.
Contents
Preparing for the Conversation
Start by gathering information about your symptoms, including frequency, triggers, and severity. Write down any questions or concerns you have. This preparation helps you communicate clearly and ensures you don't forget important details during the conversation.
Choosing the Right Time and Place
Select a time and setting where you feel comfortable and unhurried. Whether it's a doctor's office or a quiet room at home, ensure there are no distractions. A calm environment helps you express your concerns openly and receive the attention you need.

Expressing Your Concerns
Be honest about the impact of incontinence on your life. Use 'I' statements to describe your feelings and experiences, which can help convey the personal significance of the issue. Remember, your concerns are valid, and expressing them is the first step toward finding solutions.
Frequently Asked Questions
Prepare notes on symptoms and concerns.
Choose a calm, distraction-free setting.
Use 'I' statements to convey personal impact.
Your First Step
Effective communication is key to managing urinary incontinence.
References
- Brown JS, Bradley CS, Subak LL, et al. Ann Intern Med 2006; 144:715.
- Holroyd-Leduc JM, Tannenbaum C, Thorpe KE, Straus SE. JAMA 2008; 299:1446.
This article has been reviewed for accuracy by one of the licensed medical doctors working for Doctronic. Always discuss health information with your healthcare provider.
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